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writes:A guy introduced himself at the library and asked me out. He asked me in front of the librarian and I turned him down out of sheer embarrassment. Now that I think the encounter over, I want to see him again just to talk to him. Is it possible that he would be at the library again this weekend or did I blow it? I said I just needed more time to get used to the city, so I wasn't rude. Do I have a chance of ever seeing him again? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2007): Just go and see. It just depends on what type of guy he is. If he's really interested he might try to be at the library again the same time as you met before. Even if you weren't rude, you may have dampened his pride and he might try to avoid you. It's so hard to say, sweetie. You'll just have to go and hope for the best. But I agree with Frank. Don't let an opportunity pass just because you're shy.
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reader, darksecretangel  +, writes (19 June 2007):
 Hey
Well why dont you ask the librarian if he comes there very often, if the librarian says yes then you will be able to meet up with him, when he returns. Then you can tell him that you were not expecting him to ask you out and now that you have considered it, if the offer is still available you would like to go out.
=] take care x
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reader, kenny + ♥, writes (19 June 2007):
 If you saw him at this libruary then the likellhood is he goes there quite often getting books and taking them back, but when is anyones guess.
If you do happen to stumble across him again get chatting to him and ask him if that offer is still open.
All the best x
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reader, Frank B Kermit  +, writes (19 June 2007):
 Go back to the librairy. If he is there, approach him. If not, ask the librairian if she knows him.
Let this be a lesson to you. When an opportunity strikes, grab it. There is no guarenttee that he is a member there, and for all you know he could have been your soul mate.
-Frank B Kermit
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reader, DV1 +, writes (19 June 2007):
 If you run into him again, just tell him that he came on a little too strong, and that you need small steps... It should work itself out...
DV1
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