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writes:all the girls at my school think im gay because they ask me out i say no because its football season theyd get in the way how do i prove im strait. or am i just to in to football and need to get girlfriend. Reply to this Question
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (16 September 2013):
 so are you questioning your sexuality?
because my husband goes to work on Monday and they say "did your WIFE watch the game?" because I like sports and he does not.
being on the football team means nothing other than you are on the football team...
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (16 September 2013):
 Are you saying that YOU are on the football team??? ... but that you don't have much desire to date the girls who are "hangers-on" to you football jocks?????
It's easy to imagine that - if that is so - then they think you MUST be gay.... 'cuz what red-blooded American guy can resist an estrogen wielding cheerleader?????
The "answer" is that you can - and will - hang with them when and where you wish to do... and - by the way - if you ("I") AM gay.... SO F**king WHAT??????
Damn! I think that stereotypes are beginning to make our lives a complicated cornucopia of who/what/when/where we ARE.... and - regardless if anyone else's business - they are craving to put a label on you!!!!!
Keep pluggin' with the football... and I hope you get a scholarship to one of our high-flying American schools (where the football players really ARE professional athletes.... except they can't be PAID)!!!!
Good luck....
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (16 September 2013):
 You don't PROVE you are straight.
Liking or not liking football has NOTHING to do with a person's sexual orientation.
I know gay guy who LOVE football/rugby/hokey and I know straight guys who rather not participate or watch sports.
I SERIOUSLY doubt ALL the girls think you are gay because you are currently more focused about football.
But what I don't get is that you say you NEED to get a GF, yet you don't want to be involved.. that makes no sense at all.
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