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How can I make myself believe that there are good men out there?

Q.   Don't know if I did the right thing. I just left my boyfriend of 4 years after him cheating on me twice cuz he said that we were having problems, thru physical and mental abuse.. I finally woke up and realized that I shouldn't allow him to do this ...

A.   16 March 2009: YOUR WORTH THE WORLD!!!!! just remember that ... (read in full...)

I'm 19 & haven't had a proper boyfriend

Q.   i'm 19 and i havn't had a proper boyfriend yet. i'm worried that i'm never going to find someone that really loves me! It doesnt help that my best friend is stunning can have whoever she wants. i got friends that are not that pretty or conf...

A.   15 March 2009: just try and find guys that want to listen to you..... when you least expect it is when you will find someone... (read in full...)

Girlfriend older than boyfriend? Wasting my time?

Q.   my boyfriends 17 and im 22 weve been dating almost a year now were pretty happy and planning on moving in together soon his family knows my age and doesnt mind at all however my parents and freinds do not know Im just wondering should i tell them ...

A.   15 March 2009: i think you should just stop waisting your time. there will come a time when partying will come into play(21) and he will forget all about you..... so why hurt urself like that... (read in full...)

When I'm stressed, I let it out on people, including on my g/f

Q.   i have been very stressed with exams coming up and i keep snapping at people, mostly towards my girlfriend who i love so much (because were almost inseperable) all this stress has been coming out at her and it is unfair and i have hurt her ...

A.   15 March 2009: I do the same thing.... the best thing is to just try and breathe and calm down.... that is what i do... (read in full...)

Does the fact that I love giving oral sex make me look bad?

Q.   i love performing oral sex on men. it makes me extra hot and ready. does this run guys off? like do they look to me as a whore for doing it? ...

A.   15 March 2009: no.........i love oral sex and i could never get too much and i find that true for many guys... (read in full...)

She keeps talking about how big this guy was

Q.   Hi' I have a little insecurity issue occuring lately. On New Years Eve my wife and I attended a party at a friends place. A while after we got there my wife said she had to go to the bathroom. When she came back she was all horned up. I asked what ...

A.   15 March 2009: I would just mess with her best friend right in front of her and then when all three of you are together text your wife and ask if she would want to have a threesome ... (read in full...)

My dad just saw us have sex and is obviously upset.

Q.   I'm 17 years old and very close to my dad, Hes been a single father since I was 3 and has made it a point to be close to my brother and I. I am a complete daddy's girl and do no wrong in his eyes. Until now!!! I have been dating my bf for almost 8...

A.   15 March 2009: i would just talk to your dad and let him know that you do have sex now and then let him know that you were too shy to ask for the pill... (read in full...)

Boyfriend has many issues

Q.   I don't know how to stop him! My boyfriend, who is 20 has many issues like.. He smokes pot, drinks a lot, carries condoms and has sex with loads of prostitutes, been in trouble with the police for assault and shop lifting- I just don't know what to ...

A.   15 March 2009: i think that you should tell him that you only 13 and that sex is just too much for you.... plus why are you with such an older guy??? take your time...your young.... trust me there is no rush in getting older... (read in full...)

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