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writes: My best friend and my girlfriend don't get along. My best friend has moved back, and ever since my girlfriend has become hostile towards me and to my friend. She has never been this hostile with me before, although she has shown jealousy of any other friends I've had. Its my best friend in particular, since we are so close. I'm afraid this is going to tear my relationship apart. My girlfriend says I choose my best friend over her, and I can't make her feel any differently. She wants my friend out of our lives for good. What can I do? I dont want to lose either of them...
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2006): Stand your ground. The thing is, if your gf has a problem with your close friend, then she has a problem with you. You just tell her how you feel about her, but you also tell her that it's unreasonable that you must choose between two people like that. You love both, but the love is different. To your gf, it's on a different level of intimacy - physically, emotionally, and spiritually - an overall perspective in life for growth and connective spirit. With your friend, is about sharing old times, friendships, conversations, and other experiences.
I believe your gf needs to mature a bit more, or at the very least, place her trust in you more - that is, IF you deserve that trust in the first place.
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