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36-40,
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writes:Hi, I have been in this relationship going to 3 years now. .Almost every time we do have a slight misunderstanding, though distance is not helping matters here, we only see each other once in 2 months.She recently told me that am not romaantic when talking to her on phone. I do my best making It lively when I call her, but she doesn't help matters either, instead her replying me in a romantic way too, she wouldn't instead but just keep quiet and reluctantly keep saying "yes and no" in tge questions I ask her. Recently she told me something that really shocked me, she told me dat am stingy. Anytime she do ask me of something , in terms of finance, I make all my possible best to provide for her. Recently I was extremely broke and she asked me of something, and I told her I don't have... , then from that day her mood and attitude change towards me. Until she send me a text message that am very stingy.Am fed up of this, and I just wonder if we get married, will she stay byme when I have nothing?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2012): Welcome to the reality, my son!
Now you know a little bit more about real life. It's a bit different than hollywood movies, isn't it?
Unfortunately some women look at marriage as a lifetime supply of money. It's bitter, but it's true.
Pray to god and thank him, because he made you broke, and this way you could see the girl's real face.
Let her go and be someone else's problem. Go find yourself a nice girl. I'm sure you can find one if you look well.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2012): "Girlfriend called me stingy when I had no money. Will she stand by me after marriage if I have nothing?"
Shouldn't be an issue. She won't marry you if you have nothing, what would she have to gain by divorcing you?
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reader, MonksDaBomb  +, writes (10 February 2012):
 It doesn't sound like your marriage will work out if she's like this now. She sounds rather selfish to me. She has to realize that a relationship is not about how much money one person has; it's about how compatable the two of you are and how much you love each other. Why not surprise her with some "thinking of you" gifts, like sending her an "I love you" e-card, or mail her a real card (I don't know where your gf lives, if it's really far or not). Signs that show her that you love her, but doesn't break your wallet. Women love surprises!
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