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26-29,
*kittleslover
writes:So i dated this guy i really liked we went out for two months......he broke up with me ...i was devastated he was my real first boyfriend....we go to the same school...we didnt have any classes together....he would always ignore me when i tried to talk to him...so after a while i just gave up.....then he started being real nice to me.....me friend said his hair was sexy...my other friend told him...he fell in love with her...they texted for days on end i had no idea but everyone else did they did it to protect my friends and my relationship...i found out on halloween i was so depressed...because i thought she was my friend...i didnt talk to her for a week she told me she was sorry...i told her the only way we could be friends was for her to never keep secrets like that behind my back.....after christmas my classes changed and i got stuck with my ex-boyfriend....he was nice for like two days then he just ignored me....i sit behind him in like 3 classes...now i think he is messing with my head he cant see cuz he needs glasses but he turns around my way to see the clock when he could turn in the opposite direction which is closer and he does this so in almost all the classes i have with him ...sometimes i catch him watching me ....i dont know what this means help me plz!!!!!
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reader, skittleslover +, writes (7 April 2011):
skittleslover is verified as being by the original poster of the question your right..i didnt get involved.....and i do no evil cuz im really nice
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (6 April 2011):
 Don't stress about it. Maybe your friend needs to find a reason why the boy cooled off, - and she thinks you may have something to do with that , like you may have said or done something to get him back.
But , the truth is that a teenager does not need a special reason to change the objects of his affection. He will like you today, your friend next week, and a third girl next month, just for variety. Annoying, but totally normal :).
Do no evil, fear no evil. You know you have not done anything wrong, so don't get involved in the drama, it will all be forgetten much sooner than you think.
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reader, skittleslover +, writes (6 April 2011):
skittleslover is verified as being by the original poster of the questionim extremely happy but my friend is bugging me.....the one in the thing ...cuz that boy likes this other girl but he used to like her and now shes mad i dont get why
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reader, CindyCares +, writes (3 April 2011):
Glad to hear that... and you'll see ... more often than not, when you get to be happy with yourself and have fun anyway, with or without a partner,... it's exactly then that you attract the right person for you.
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reader, skittleslover +, writes (3 April 2011):
skittleslover is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you.....im taking your advice and it feels great..i dont know how to explain it but i feel so free
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reader, CindyCares +, writes (27 March 2011):
It does not mean anything. The sooner you realize it the better. Mixed signals, for all intents and purposes = no signal. The fact that he is looking at you does not mean anything in particular, or at least you can't read it that way. Same with any smile grin grimace facial expression pat on the back etc. etc. YOU really risk messing with your own head if you watch him like a hawk for signals that then you may read through your wishful-thinking glasses.
The only real " signal " would be if he calls you , and asks you to give him a second chance. Other than that, you'd be wiser stop watching for signs, and try to move on and to enjoy your life and have fun- with or without a bf, that at your age is definitively an extra not a necessity.
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