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30-35,
*iscomunication
writes:I've been with my boyfriend for 3 months now and he's cheated on me (accidentally) with a girl that apparently was all over him and he couldn't stop her. This is fine but lately he's been acting strange and saying things like "I'm scared i'm using you" etc. He's also put a note up on facebook about all his cheating etc and with what i guessed was me he said he didnt know "what part of him loved me" I'm so confused at what to do! Can you please help me? Sorry it's really complicated
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reader, discomunication +, writes (19 July 2009):
discomunication is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks everyone for your help. I know you guys said to dump him but i'm finding it hard to. I have given him a warning though that if it happens again i'm gone.
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reader, Jason32477  +, writes (15 July 2009):
 The best advice is the hardest to take. You need to end this relationship, and hopefully find someone that really cares about you.There is no such thing as "accidentally" cheating. There is intimacy and there is rape.There is nothing in between.And considering he is male I doubt he was raped.And from what you have said it`s pretty clear that wasn`t the only time it has happened.This guy is lying to you and using you.You have my word that whatever you do it`s going to hurt.You can either end it now and deal with the pain now,or you can let it continue and deal with this plus everything else that is to come.It`s like the piece of tape stuck to your arm.You can rip it off quick or slow,but it is going to come off.
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