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36-40,
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writes:It's years since I've been in the early stages of dating, so I'm not sure if I'm right or wrong to feel annoyed right now. I've been dating this guy for 2 -3 months now, not too seriously (as in we haven't slept together or talked about whether we're seeing other people still). He was meant to be cooking me dinner one night this week and I haven't heard anything about it yet (I've now made plans for the rest of the week anyway because I think he's forgotten) and now I read on his myspace page that he's going overseas in 3 days (when I thought it wasn't for 12 days). He's going to be gone for 8 weeks. He always gives me mixed signals, but to me this seems pretty clear...?
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reader, Aldonza  +, writes (15 July 2009):
A man that doesn't bother to tell you he's leaving the country for 8 weeks is not in a relationship with you.
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reader, Basschick  +, writes (15 July 2009):
 I don't think your relationship with him is really going anywhere. Perhaps you were more interested in him, and than he was. I think you should look for someone else before your heart gets in too deep. Give him the boot.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2009): Then I agree with ya, that he's not interested in you. If he is then this is a poor way of showing it. I hope you wont be too dragged over this one, but I guess its better to just start dating other guys. Can't blame ya for being annoyed though, I'd be too in your situation.
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