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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I had this boyfriend for a year. On and Off and went through all this bullshit. We're in love. Even though we're young. We always went back to each other no matter what.The last time we broke up, Christmas even 2007, i wouldnt get back together with him after that. And i tried everything to get over him. I even have a new boyfriend now who i dont even like that much but i dont know what to do to get over him. Its been 4 months and a few days and im still not over him, not one bit .. what do i do?Get back together with him and risk going through all that shit or try to move on, even though at this point it feels impossible.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2008): It sounds like you need to be completely single, and a mistake to bring someone else in, ie, your current boyfriend. You need to break it off with the current, and you need to move on and clear your head and regain your sanity. Then, and only then, should you be open to a new relationship, with no one from your past.
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reader, softballplaya  +, writes (27 April 2008):
 heyy girl
i know exactly how you feel. exactly. Well if you still love him and you feel that you need him in your life then my advice for you would be to go back, but if your heart still needs to heal then take a break and focus on you. You have a new boyfriend you said correct? You also mentioned that you dont like him. Thats not fair to this boy. You should settle down and be single for a while and enjoy time with your friends. If your ex boyfriend is still contacting you and is trying to make plans to get back with you then you either tell him yes but expect the same ordeal as before or focus on yourself and enjoy life without him. Do what you feel is best, I assume that if he bullshitted you a few times then what makes you think he will not do it again. Stay away from this guy and let yourself heal honey, it will all get better. Time heals everything even the deepest of wounds.
hope i helped you
feel free to message me if you need anything
take care=]
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