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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:This is really confusing so please, take the time to read and try to understand. I'm a female but I have an extreme need to be a man, but gay. I don't know if this makes me straight or gay. I've been with both men and women but being with both doesn't interest me, seeing as the men I've been with were straight and having sex with me as a woman. And the women I've been with want a woman, not a man. Which is what I want more than anything to be. I don't know if this is just a phase or something more than that. Do any of you have an explanation? Please help. Reply to this Question
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reader, Wisdom  +, writes (6 March 2012):
 Time to seek help... counselling or therapy.
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female
reader, Wisdom +, writes (6 March 2012):
Time to seek help... counselling or therapy.
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male
reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2012): you are a perfectly normal girlfag and i wish i were your boyfriend
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male
reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2012): You might be transgendered. A transgendered person can be any sexuality, just as a cisgendered person can be. There a plenty of gay transgendered men out there. There is a big trans community on youtube. I suggest you look up ftm and transgendered on there so you can find out about other peoples's experiences - as a starting point.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2012): If I were you I'd go contact your nearest LGBT group for advice and perhaps where you can get some counselling or even some group sessions with others who have similar confusion.
Counselling isn't only if there's something wrong with you in this case it can help you make sense of the person you are.
So go contact some local groups or even just call their hotline and arrange some time with people who are experts in this kind of thing. OP no one here can tell you how you feel, or tell you what you are. You need to discover who you are for yourself and your best off doing that with the help of others in your situation.
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reader, Kyle007  +, writes (17 January 2012):
Find someone you really love, and this gender issue will fall away. If this is all about simple sexual pleasure and nothing more, you will just get more confused. If you have no preferences about gay or straight, male or female, then I can pretty well establish that you would be able to find true love with a man or a woman. Focus on the love. Your identity will work itself out. This really is an identity issue. And you can make up your mind as to who you are.
Once again, focus on the love. Simplicity resolves complexity.
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