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writes:So im in a nsa friends with benefits situation (for about 2 months). Things are going well and im happy with the arrangement. We normally text every day about random things/how are days are going etc and usually meet up once or twice a week. For the past few weeks my fwb will still text me daily but is no longer making plans to meet up with me...are they losing interest? why would they still text me everyday? BTW my fwb is currently in a relationship
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (5 April 2011):
 He's getting his sexual needs met by his GF currently but keeping you on the line for when she doesn't meet his needs.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2011): He's in a relationship and you're worried that he's not contacting you as much? You are actually concerned about what this guy thinks? Something's not right here.The guy's got a girlfriend yet having sex with you on the side, he's a creep and a user. Find someone who is single if you want that type of arrangement.
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reader, angelDlite +, writes (5 April 2011):
 he may be losing interest, the sex has lost its novelty and he does not need you for love or the other things a real relationship brings coz he is already getting that from his partner. maybe his partner is getting suspicious and so he is hanging to be more careful but is still texting to keep you interested for the time he can start up with you again. if he is just a NSA FWB why do you care?? if you don't enjoy being treated like this, remember this the next time a guy wants the same sort of set up with you and say no, especially if they are in a relationship already
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2011): I think that if your fwb wasn't interested anymore he wouldn't be texting you everyday. Either he's too busy to make plans or the person he's in a relationship with doesn't like how they are fwbs with you. Maybe you should ask him to meet up and see what they say.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (5 April 2011):
Why are you seeing someone who is already a relationship? Does that not in itself answer your question? You were used, and probably he's no longer bothered by you at all. Perhaps instead of worrying about him and his feelings, you need to worry about yourself and why you're so willing to be some guy's quick one on the side.
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