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Friend wants a threesome, the other guy wants a relationship without sex

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Question - (18 December 2012) 2 Answers - (Newest, 18 December 2012)
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I have liked a man I have been friends with for a year now. He has always treated me as that - a friend. He has a good repution and thriving business. He has in the past helped me through problems but never gotten too close and to be honest I have been quiet with him.because I was interested.

In the last few weeks he started messaging and texting being very flirty. I asked him why he never had before and he said this was because I wasquiet. However, after a while of this he suggwith ests we have a threesome with his male friend, who I did not know. He passed the njmber of this friend to me and I contacted him. Three weeks later and we are chatting away about anything and everythng. My friemd who suggested it.has gone quieter, though when I saw him a few days ago he was flustered and smily and a little flirty. Now the second man saus he is interested in a relationship not just the sex. Am not.sure what o do anymore. The friend who sugested it is in a relationship and the other guy is not.

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (18 December 2012):

So_Very_Confused agony auntwhy would you be the sex toy for these two men?

the friend that is in the relationship wants to have a threesome with you and another guy... what will his gf say about that? why doesn't he do it with his gf and this guy?

if the other guy wants to have a relationship with you without sex... let him... see if it works out

I've done threesomes... mmf mfm fff ffm you name it I've done it... it's no big deal and it's no big thrill..

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2012):

You don't know what to do?? First of go find your self respect .. Do you really wanta be used like some kinda toy ?? I mean really..

Do you really think that your guy friend will find you more attractive once you bonk him and his mate ?? Really!,

Sorry to come over heavy handed but I don't think you have really though this through and the consequences of it.. And how you will feel afterwards when mr friend guy who doesn't really care a hoot about you doesn't text doesn't call and above all doesn't, care..

If you like guy number two, then go for the relationship deal, and tell hoppie Freddie who's anyone's beddie to ^^^k off..

Respect yourself and what your worth, as darling no one else will.

take care

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