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female
age
30-35,
*riaz
writes:Someone I had considered a really good friend cut me off because she didn't agree with one of the decisions I was making (September 2021). We were coworkers at our previous employer. She questioned my judgement because she didn't agree with it, and then told me she can't talk to me anymore. I was really shocked, and then hurt. I also didn't end up going through with it because I was sad about losing her friendship. But I started to move on. Then, a few months later she reached out to apologize. I forgave her and tried to give her another chance (really wasnt feeling it though, as she had already broken my trust), then she disappeared for a month without warning (may 2022) (her excuse was she dropped off the face of the earth for a month to study for her certification, which i dont believe for a second), so at that point I decided I was done with her. I told her I don't want to be friends with her anymore because I didnt like the way I was being treated.Since then, she'll text me every couple months, and even email me if I don't respond to her texts, none of which Ive responded to. Yet she still keeps trying. I blocked her number, but still saw that she texted me wishing me a happy 4th and birthday. She has not heard from me in over a year. I think I've made myself very clear where I stand with her, so why does she keep trying? How do I get her to leave me alone for good?Link to previous questions about her:https://www.dearcupid.org/question/a-friend-cut-me-off-and-now-wants.htmlhttps://www.dearcupid.org/question/one-of-my-really-good-friends-just-decided.html
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