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writes: i think my boyfriend is cheating on me because i found texts off another girl on his phone saying "hi babe sorry about last night i'll make it up to you love ya" but when i confronted them they said i have nothing to worry about they are good mates and he went to school with her. i'm so confused and don't know if they are telling the truth or not what should i do? help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2006): this has happened to me, too. First, did he put kisses at the end?if he did, are there as many as he normally puts in his texts to you?remember to check his saved and archive texts, and also his call lists. it could be hes not cheating, but is flirting a bit. guys LOVE to do this; they do it online too. seems to give them the same thrill as going out and pulling some1, but in their opinion they havent done anything wrong. final point:something made you check his phone in the first place. Either you had a gut feeling (maybe hes done it before, or had been acting suspiciously), or you are insecure and have trust issues.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2006): Whatever you do; fight the urge to flush the cellphone.
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reader, guardian87  +, writes (23 August 2006):
 Dont worry so much yet as to whether your bf is cheating on u. i know a lot of guys who just say that to girls even when they would never be more than friends. however, it is a topic of discussion for u and ur bf if they were in a past relationship. if they were, then take a lot of caution and do a little bit of snooping (without being caught, cuz u dont want to upset him by invading his space [someguys are like that]) and see what you can find out from his friends as well.
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reader, xxxsoulsistaxxx  +, writes (23 August 2006):
 Well firstly I would question what he told you he was doing the night in question. If he told you he was supposed to be seeing her or something like that, he probably isn't cheating. However, if he said something else, maybe he is trying to hide something.
Personally, I tell my friends who are boys that I love them on texts but only you know whether your boyfriend is like that and feels enough for this girl as a friend for them to tell each other they love the other.
I am a very suspicious person and I always assume the worst. Sadly, I've usually been right when doing this so you really need to find out the truth and, if he is cheating, you need to get rid of him fast.
Do a bit of sneaking around. There's a few tricks I used to catch my ex in the act. Here's one for you: find a spare sim card and change the number under her name to the sim cards number. Block her number from texting the phone and then text him from that sim asking him out or something she might say. See what he says back!
I caught my ex out by doing that, it was great! Good luck
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reader, Nay920 +, writes (23 August 2006):
was they ever in a relationship together if so they may still have feeling for each other maybe you should find out a little more about them before you start thinking that he is cheating on you he might me but dont be to sure about find out more write me back them i can give you better advice.
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