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writes: I'll describe a very sordid process at the risk of getting a humungous barrage of insults for being an idiot cus that's how I feel......At 23yrs I was married to a chap who well kept me til he got a stay in the country. He then got violent I divorced him, however had a mental breakdown... lost custody of two children.....Got to continue studying, kinda moved on, started working. Met someone else, said they were 'separated' living on their own, we knew each other 1yr. I fell in love BIG TIME, started a relationship and they went back to their wife oh..without telling me!! This relationship has continued on and off for 8yrs. I start other relationships when we break up, then the person comes into me life again. It happens again and again. Its driving me bonkers. I really need some solid advice on how to end this but gently because it has got out of hand in so many ways.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 September 2006): i was in your situation before the guy that i am with now. my ex is a muslim indian man, and he was married to his cousin when i had met him. we break up than he would come back into my life when i had another person it, with insane jealousy.i was stuck on him too, one day i text messaged him and told him that this is it , either me or her. later on i found out he had divorced her a long time ago and never told me. it is hard to trust that kind of relationship, and you never know whet he is really about.
If he cheats on her than he will definatley cheat on you. bring it to him like that , either me or her, than you will get your very true answer. unfortunatly i found out mine was telling me that he was married , so i wont expect him to marry me if i found out he was divorced. anotherwords he was playing around wiht my head so please clear it up you will feel better about yourself in the long run... much ggod luck please keep me in formed email is [email address blocked] muahs!!!!!!!!
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (31 October 2005):
 Let me be the first to tell you that you feel like an idiot because you are acting like an idiot. Take control of yourself! Drop the married guy, you owe him nothing. You sound pretty unstable so get some counseling. Start acting like an adult and move on with your life.
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