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reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2010): Do not start lying to him about his performance- it's bad for you, him and every other woman he's going to sleep with. First, be honest (nice, but honest), teach him to give you pleasure... trust me he will really appreciate you teaching him what to do... you need to know how to pleasure yourelf and then show and tell him- and keep teaching him till he gets really good at it!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwe've been dating for over a year and I've given him blowjobs all the time and we started out doing that and I finally told him I was ready to have sex and we did but it was like idk. I am attracted to him though, he's so damn sexy (: lol
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reader, Redd_Extacy  +, writes (12 January 2010):
 Maybe you're not as attracted to him sexually as you thought you would be. Maybe you need someone bigger to satisfy your needs? I've never had sex with a guy with a small penis so I wouldn't know but maybe oral sex first will help?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 January 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI mean. we were close and stuff but I guess since I wasn't moaning and stuff that he didn't think it felt good but I just told him it did cuz I didn't wanna hurt his feelings. and I kept telling him to kiss my neck cuz that feels real good but he was like breathing too hard. I mean he was trying really hard! but like. yah. /: I want it to feel good.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 January 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionidk I'm bad at judgement but basically I couldn't even feel him.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (12 January 2010):
It's all about getting turned on mentally and enjoying the closeness.
Didn't you enjoy being so close to him, the kissing the touching?
Foreplay and the feelings you have for that person are EVERYTHING about sex.
You can't just stick it in there and expect it to be amazing.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 January 2010): Plenty of foreplay... I think my fingers and tongue can please a girl more than my penis :S
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 January 2010): Just a detail but roughly how big is his penis? I mean, what are you calling small?
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