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writes:Heyyyy, advice please lovely’s.I’m really intrigued by the thought of anal sex and want to try it with my new boyfriend. But is it actually worth it or will it just hurt? I have a really high sex drive as it is and love to experiment, but anal is one of the few things I’m actually quite wary of, because one of my friends tried it and said she was waddling for days in pain afterwards.The thing is I get really horny when I’m on my period, even more so than when I’m not on. I don’t know why, but I just want sex more than usual, multiple times a day whenever I can. It wasn’t a problem with my last boyfriend and we carried on having normal sex and dealt with the mess later if you get what I mean lol.But my new boyfriend doesn’t react well to blood and won’t do it with me when I’m on, even though we always use condoms. And that’s fine, I completely understand if he feels like that. So I’m wondering if anal would be worth doing instead whenever I’m on my period? I know a lot of you will probably suggest just sticking to foreplay but to be honest, it’s never the same. Again, I don’t know why but I just love the feeling of being penetrated, it completely trumps foreplay every time. The thought of anal really turns me on and excites me, but again I just don’t know if the reality would be completely different. Anybody got any advice?
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reader, Kofcalifornia  +, writes (20 November 2021):
I think u should definitely find the right partner to do it with. U say u love penetration so I am sure u will absolutely love it. However if u do it with the wrong person. It could ruin the experience for u completely. Unless ur planning multiple gangbangs or to stick baseball.bats and champagne bottles up there u will be fine. It could get messy so someone that will be patient with u is a must. Research the subject further and prepare yourself mentally and physically. Good luck have fun. Enjoy yourself and keep us updated.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 September 2021): Firstly, it's perfectly normal and common to feel 'hornier' during your period than any other time. It's the hormones. I did and so did every friend I've ever spoken to about this, has felt the same and many aunties on here have said the same.
Yes, I believe it hurts like hell, because it's an exit, not an entrance. You're young and if you try anal sex and find you like it and do it repeatedly, get ready to be dribbling shit when you walk by the time you're in your thirties. You will be ruining the sphincters (the muscles which keep holes closed when the body wants them closed, without any conscious effort from us) and so will have less and less control of your bowels. I know a doctor who said that men who indulge in anal sex are usually having to wear nappies when they get older to contain the shit that the sphincters can no longer contain.
Still feel turned on by the idea? Then fine, it's your body, go ahead. I just wanted you to be informed about the consequences of it and remember, you only get one body. And, with any luck it's got to last you a long, long time.
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