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*odkablue
writes:i need help here. i had a messy breakup with my ex fiance. part of the reaon was i was friends with another guy and spoke to him on email which he didnt like.i have lived with my mistake ever since but now he has come back into my life on facebook and is married but wants to have me as a friend to talk to-when his wife isnt around ! the thing he blasted me for. im not happy about this and dont want to cause problems. why is he ok with this now ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2009): Vodka, if you have started communicating with your ex then you deserve what you tolerate.
i have read all your devastating details through your posts of how your life has transpired and how you have messed it up. if you start with this married man, well, you then only have yourself to blame for the hell you are going to re live.
quit while you still can.
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reader, QuirkLady  +, writes (13 September 2009):
 Your ex is a certified idiot, that's why.
Don't fall for this mess. He wants you around when his wife isn't! Man, I feel sorry for her.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (13 September 2009):
You know why he's ok with it now, because he's a hypocrite!!
You don't end things with the girl you wanted to marry over a couple of emails.
He just used that as an excuse to get out of the engagement because he didn't want to be with you. It wasn't your fault.
If you have any sense please realise this guy is no good, you had a lucky escape by not marrying him and delete him off facebook.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2009): Basically, in the back of his tiny little mind, he has remembered that you are 'up for' a bit of internet flirting (if indeed that is what you did first time around) and so thinks you are an easy target now he is bored in his marriage. Don't embarass or humiliate yourself further by falling prey to his trap. Why are you tempted? Just block him.
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