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writes:I've posted on this before. basically my ex had a huge problem with my sex life before him, and it ruined our relationship. After about 3 months after we broke up, he texted me saying he had changed. The guys before him, didn't bother him anymore. So we tried talking...and I created some double standards by accident. he had lied and flirted with other girls while with me and had tried to get with them while we broke up so i had issues trusting him. He randomly got into this we cant be together i was never happy being with you. i cant be happy. so I stopped texting him after pleading to get with him. after a while of not texting he starts texting me. But he started this i dont know if i love you thing. Once again i stopped texting him. sure enough he came over one night he was drunk and started telling me how he was lying to himself and he probably did love me. after i still didnt text him. so after a few days he texted me saying he loved me. i said we couldn't be together he said why not?!? i told him let's hang out as friends. he stopped texting or replying to me. eventually I texted him saying he was a jerk. our whole relationship was based on lies and therefore was fake. it was like it never existed. he basically said i needed to grow up and accept that he and i didnt work out. i was just like what the heck.. He said he loved me but wasnt in love with me. i said fine. i dont want you. I want you to stop playing games. I told him after this coming wednesday (i have to see him to get something important of mine) i am deleting his number and forgetting he and i ever existed. And I plan on it. so my question is..he has a pattern of texting me when i stop texting him. do you think he will text me again after i stop texting him. also can anyone explain his mood changes?? he says he doesn't have or want any other girl. i wont get back with him. but i want to know that he will at least miss me and text me...what do you think?
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reader, kate28 +, writes (13 November 2011):
Sounds like he will probably miss you and text you. If you do want to get back with him eventually I would have very limited contact with him for quite awhile. I think both of you need some space/time to let what has happened in the past go. If you have some mature limited contact in the meantime it might help to "re-set" things. If you really want to just move on and be done with it I would completely stop any contact with him. His mood swings are either because he isn't sure what he wants, or because he's being immature and isn't sure how you feel about him/is scared of getting hurt by putting himself out there and being honest about his feelings.
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