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writes:okay....so here's the thing :i went out with this guy for a year and two months wen i was in high school. after that i broke up with him n went out with a couple of guys for relatively small durations of time and this first guy knows tat. so he never talked to me politely or showed any concern. now that i'm single again, he started talking online. he's being all sweet and complimenting and i go as far as saying a bit flirtatious. so i asked his friend abt this sudden change and he tells me tat he's just being sweet cuz he believes he did't treat me right in the past. what am i supposed to think ? is this being polite or is there sumthn on his mind ??? HELP x(
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2013): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhey....thanks a lot for the advice !but u know what, he did that yesterday and completely ignored me today
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2013): He wants something OP.
The timing of you being single and then him suddenly "realizing he treated you badly" is too much of a coincidence. His friend said that as all us guy friends do to make sure we don't ruin our friends chances of bagging you again.
Basically he's trying to get you it's as simple as that and even his friends are preparing you for him. it's pretty obvious isn't it? He's going to use the "I've changed" "I realized how wrong I was" all that bullshit stuff. If it was just an innocent thing where he wanted to make it up to you then why did he wait until you were available again.
He's making a move. The question is, do you really want this to happen and do you think it's a good idea?
He hasn't changed, he'll treat you the same as he did but at the start while he's trying to get you he'll be the nicest person in the world.
OP if you want him then just play along, if not then you need to get rid of him. He only wants one thing and if he says he doesn't then he's lying, if he wants to make it up to you then tell him he's forgiven, his conscience is clear and that it's done.
He's not just being polite, he could have been polite while you were seeing one of your other guys. But he waited until you were single. That says it all doesn't it? Plus he's flirting with you.
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