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Everything was great and then suddenly-he breaks up with me! He says he unsure if he loves me..help!

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Question - (18 November 2006) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A female , *iorDior1 writes:

Hi All,

My boyfriend and myself have been together for two and half years. We have built such an amazing relationship and we seemed to be a perfect couple.

However it all changed so quickly... We spent an amazing weekend together.. he was talking about marriage about a house.

There were no signs at all that he was thinking of breaking up with me. However on Tuesday evening he told me he was working. However when i went on our bank account i could see he had withdrawn money.

I was so furious that he had lied to me and gone out with his male friends partying. I dont have a problem at all with him going out with his friend. He is 22 he needs to have a life and socialise.

On wednesday morning when i spoke to him he admitted that he had gone out.. he then decided to turn it around and say that he was not sure if he wanted to go out with me anymore!!! What a shock that was! You think you know people.

He was unsure if he loved me?!! I dont understand how someone can fall out of love. Everything he said and done has created this illusion we are going to be together forever.

So he said he needed some space to think about things.. he said he wanted to be single... but then also said i am not spliting up with you... i just dont know if i love you.

So i am giving him his space.. i want to text him and ring him but i cant... i am so scared he is going to throw everything we have created... what do i do??? I am completly heartbroken.I dont not want him in my life!!! Why is this happening to me?

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