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GUYS: Would a spontaneous kiss leave you wanting a girl more?

Q.   I met a guy on Saturday and hit it off really well. I had a great time and decided I really liked him. I am not one to play mind games but I wanted to try playing hard to get. It has been working well for me. He has initiated every contact and ...

A.   11 February 2011: A spontaneous kiss would suprise me, in a good way though. I would suggest looking for signs of subtlety that he wants you to kiss him. Listen to how he talks to you hinting he wants to kiss. If he compliments your lipstick/ lip gloss or if he l... (read in full...)

How do I tell him he's too rough?

Q.   Hi. Me and my boyfriend have been going out for about 7 months and we are sexually active but the problem is that he is very rough during sex and it sometimes can be painfull. Help. What should I say to him ...

A.   11 February 2011: Tell him that you want to have more relaxed sex. Even if you don't want slow motion sex, just tell him it hurts and its not pleasurable for you, that you want sex to be a fun and relaxing activity. I hope this helps you.good luck.... (read in full...)

My senior crush!

Q.   Okay,so I've been crushing on my senior in school band for the past 5 months now. - When we first met, his attitude towards me was really cold aad he ignored me all the time. - Around 4 months ago, he had a sudden attitude change towards m...

A.   9 February 2011: A couple questions to ask: Does he do these same behaviors just for you or around other people too, particularly girls? How does he act when others are around? If you are the commitment of his attention whether others are around or not, he proba... (read in full...)

I just wonder, where do I fit in her life?

Q.   This girl that I dated at one point, now who is single and got dumped, and we did remain friends durring their relationship. We joke around flirt and everything, she told me she didn't want to get my hopes up or anything, that she didn't want to ...

A.   9 February 2011: I agree with it being hard to maintain a long distance relationship. Since you two have dated, there can be an underlying connection. If you two trust each other enough to share secrets together that other friends don't know about, then you should ... (read in full...)

We are always joking around so I cant tell if my friend is interested or not

Q.   So I'm now in high school and i thought things have been going really well. I get along with almost everyone, I have the perfect boyfriend, and I hang out in a small group that consist of 5 of my best guy friends. Well lately rumors have been ...

A.   9 February 2011: He may be interested and not making any moves because he respects that you already have a boyfriend. He may seem nervous some times because he is feeling catious at the moment and not want to cross any lines. The best way to handle this is to just... (read in full...)

The guilt of us breaking up is really bothering me

Q.   hi i feel i am surrounded by many problems my ex and i hav had break up 4 months ago but still he hasnt been able to move on.. he has ended up hurting himself physically, sometimes threathening me and more important losing his focus out off studies. ...

A.   6 February 2011: The best way to get him to know what he is doing is bad for him is to get others to tell him what to do. He needs support so the closest of his friends need to tell him to stop being obsessive. If you know some of his friends fairly well, the... (read in full...)

Am I masturbating too much?

Q.   I have a girlfriend as of now, but I still masturbate at least once, usually twice per day. All told, between my time with her and my own time I'm getting off about 13-16 times per week. I know that this may qualify as over-masturbation, but I'm not ...

A.   6 February 2011: When your dealing with this part of your body, most things reversable, but most people are unhappy with their results. If your member becomes smaller over a number of years, most procedures such as pills result with growth but loss of stiffness. ... (read in full...)

Would I be better off without this bestfriend in my life?

Q.   Please help. Ohh.. where 2 start I'm going to try and be brief! I amd a 24 yr old straight female. I been friends with this girl since we were in the 6th grade. Since then we hv had a roller coaster relationship until the present.. but somehow ...

A.   6 February 2011: Tell her straight out that If she doesn't start cleaning up her act she can drop the so called friendship. If she makes fake apologies and still is a hypocrate, then just stop contacting her.... (read in full...)

In the beginning he was attentive. Now he ignores me. Does he still need me?

Q.   My bestfriend and I have recently started dating. Before us dating he used to like me a lot and I wasn't really that much into him. He tried his best and we finally started dating. Now, he just doesn't seem to care as much as he did before. We don'...

A.   6 February 2011: Your bf may just be nervous. Is he hesitant to talk? He may not want to say the wrong things and blow the relationship right away. He might be observing to know what to talk about. Does he want to go to your place to hang out or do you go to his ... (read in full...)

Good places to meet single girls?

Q.   I am a single guy (18) and I don't know what some good places to meet single girls are. Being I live in a small town also limits what I can do. Please help me....

A.   4 February 2011: Thank you very much.... (read in full...)

So what comes next? I don't want to jump right into sex so do we start using our hands next?

Q.   Alright. I'm 24 and I've been dating a guy (26) for a little over a month. I like where things are going with him but am a little uncomfortable with the idea of sleeping with him just yet... it hasn't been proposed but let's face it, it's on his m...

A.   4 February 2011: First of all you should talk to him about the dilemma your having. Otherwise, don't do anything your not comfortable with. Doing oral is a slow safe step, he more than likely would be satisfied with a bj/handjob.It should be about doing something ... (read in full...)

I treat him like a brother, but I want him as a boyfriend!

Q.   Hey im in this sucky situation. Im in a relationship with a guy for 2years6mnths already. And i got to know one of my male classmates 2 years ago and recently 6 months back, we have been close. we have been joking around, having lunch together, ...

A.   4 February 2011: You should be honest and open with this guy. He will appreciate you being able to share your feelings with him.this will strengthen your friendship even if he rejects the bf/gf idea.... (read in full...)

Want to be with her, but not ruin a friendship in the process!

Q.   i really really liked this girl at my college. i have liked her from the first day i saw her in september but i have really really liked her since october. i think im in love with her because i think about her all the time, i can't concentrate on ...

A.   3 February 2011: You should tell her how you feel and just out it all in the open. She will appreciate your honesty and more than likely feel that its very good that you can be so honest with her. If she is a very good friend, she should still keep your friendship ... (read in full...)

Every time I ask her out she says she's too busy!

Q.   There is a girl that lives a considerable distance away from me and we text back and forth every so often. I've hung out with her a couple times and I want to ask her out, but every time I ask her to do something she is too busy. I know that she is ...

A.   3 February 2011: Thank you everyone for your help.... (read in full...)

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