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writes:okay. i need serious advice... i am crazy about this guy in my school. i call him my ken doll. he is perfect in so many ways and i like him alot. but he doesn't feel the same about me and it hurts like so badly. i dont know what to do. like i really like him alot and i always see him around in my school and when we get out of school. and the worst part is my boyfriend look like he could be the not so hot version of him! and when im with my boyfriend im thinking of my crush. what should i do? i already tried to get to know him but that's not really working
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reader, Anonymous_NF  + ♥, writes (1 November 2009):
 Sorry I posted the comment three times, something went wrong. Anyway I hope it helped a bit, sorry again.
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reader, Anonymous_NF + ♥, writes (1 November 2009):
You know what, I'm sorta in the same shit right now, I too have a crush on someone (he is sitting next to me in class) and sometimes when I'm with my bf I think of him. In this case I think it's the best not to think of that what we want, but of that what we need, of that what is right. Everything perfect in this world can't just belong to one person and it brings a lot of pain. Life is tough and it's all about making the right decisions. Just because it feels good doesn't mean that it's right. You should try to concentrate on your relationship with your bf, try to make it work, try to do new things together. You said that he doesn't feel the same way about you, that means he might hurt you or break your heart.I hope that I could helpGood luck ;)
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reader, Anonymous_NF + ♥, writes (1 November 2009):
You know what, I'm sorta in the same shit right now, I too have a crush on someone (he is sitting next to me in class) and sometimes when I'm with my bf I think of him. In this case I think it's the best not to think of that what we want, but of that what we need, of that what is right. Everything perfect in this world can't just belong to one person and it brings a lot of pain. Life is tough and it's all about making the right decisions. Just because it feels good doesn't mean that it's right. You should try to concentrate on your relationship with your bf, try to make it work, try to do new things together, to make it fun. You said that he doesn't feel the same way about you, that means he might hurt you or break your heart.
I hope that I could help you
Good luck ;)
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reader, Aunty BimBim  + ♥, writes (1 November 2009):
you are not being fair to your boyfriend. I think you need to gently let him go so that he can find a girl who will like him for what he is. This will also give you heaps more free time to obsess about somebody you cant have.
enjoy it!
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reader, Anonymous_NF + ♥, writes (1 November 2009):
I know exactly what you mean. I to have a crush on someone (he is sitting next to me) and sometimes I think of him when I'm with my boyfriend. I guess that in this case we shouldn't thing of that what we want, but that what we need and what is right. It will be very hard to get him outa your mind. Sometimes all the perfect stuff in life cant belong only to one person. If he really is so perfect then I'm afraid that he will not be yours for ever. Your just going to get hurt in the end. You should concentrate on making your relationship work with your bf, try to make it perfect, the way you want it. Do some new stuff together as a couple.
I hope I could help you :)
good luck
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