Even if they do break up I don't want to be the rebound guy!

A male age 30-35, anonymous writes:

There's this girl, she has a boyfriend, when we met about 3 months ago there was an instant attraction, and I started flirting with her. We became good friends, but never crossed a line, until one night when we were drunk we confessed our feelings. We agreed that we couldn't do anything about it and remained friends, but things changed. While all this was going on her relationship with her boyfriend was going downhill. Then about a month after we told each other our feelings, we were watching a movie one night and we ended up kissing. We both felt awful and talked about it. We said that maybe we should stop hanging out so much, but neither of us really wants to do that. And she said that she and her boyfriend do have an expiry date, but I think she's scared. And she was adamant that her problems with her boyfriend have nothing to do with me. What can I do? Even if they do break up I don't want to be the rebound guy

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