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writes:I am so in love with this man. He has done everything that I have asked of him. But yesterday I found out that he (my fiance) slept with my godsister who frequents my house. They both say it happened a long time ago and it never happened again. My wedding is scheduled for August 2, 2008. He says that he wants to make our relationship work and it meant nothing. I don't see my life without this man. Should the wedding go on?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2008): I disagree with Laura, you are seeing tisman through rose coloured glasses, you can do better and should move on.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (16 February 2008):
 You have answered your own question.
"I don't see my life without this man."
Your love for him will be steadfast and you shall be loyal to him at whatever cost.
Because of one silly incident or moment of madness, you are willing to jump ship?
You are stronger than that. Forgive him and move on.
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reader, q1605 +, writes (15 February 2008):
 So how did this even come up? Did someone's attempt to sex up valentines day with a pick up game of truth or dare veer out of control. In these matters truth is a relative term. How about little white lies or dare. Was it far enough in your relationship that this was betrayal or were you just in that getting to know and wonder if I might want more with this person stage. Or sooner than that. When there are several people swirling in and out of proximity with one another and all are looking for sex and love and commitment things can get messy and people that didn't intend to and really shouldn't end up between the sheets find themselves there any way. Only can you draw the line at what you will accept. And you can draw it where you want it. You are under no obligation to move this boundary to accomodate the wishes and desires of anyone else. And you are not obligated to proceed any farther in this relationship than you are comfortable proceeding.
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