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writes: Dear peops, I got dumped by text message a few days ago and am still reeling. I text back (politely) what I thought of his 'tactics' but dont know if he read it or replied as I lost my phone a few hours later in town.My main worry at the moment is how i will react to seeing him again. I am worried I might do something stupid and make an arse of my self. How should i deal with it?
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reader, daughteroflilith +, writes (21 June 2006):
I agree with ariel, nothing makes a guy regret his actions than seeing that all you have done since you left him, is thrive. The happier you look the unhappier he'll be. But rather than being angry about how he dumped you, you should think it's better that he did it then regardless of his cowardly way of doing it, than he lead you on until he next sees you, while felandering with other people. My advice if you can make it happen is to let him see you out with a hot guy really really soon after spliting with you and flirt alot with the guy, it'll make him question wether you were with that guy at the same time you were with him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2006): Agreed with the others!
No matter how confident he might seem when you see him, remember this: He is a complete coward for dumping you like that!
If you haven't got your thoughts together about this, maybe it would be better to not see him? When you've got things more sorted in your head, you'll be a lot stronger to deal with him.
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reader, camille  +, writes (21 June 2006):
 (Wow, what a jerk eh? Very cowardly and cruel methinks). You know what, he's not worth any reaction so take a deep breath, hold your head up high and ignore him. I wouldn't waste my breath on him. I know it's easier said than done, but if you could refrain from saying anything, that'll have more of an effect than any words whatever they may be.
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reader, DrPsych +, writes (21 June 2006):
 Stop worrying because it is he who has the problem, not you. Dumping someone by text message is a bit tragic, and if he is that disrespectful that he cannot even face you with the news then it is his problem, not yours. When you see him again, just act calm and as if you couldnt care less - that is the best way I think! Show him how much more mature you are than him...
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