A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:hi there, ok so i am 17 and have been dating my 20 year old boyfriend for 8 months. 2 weeks ago i made the biggest mistake of my life and when i was unbelievably drunk i cheated (not fully just foreplay) with my boyfriends best friend. i know! awful. ive cried ever since, ive made the decision not to tell him as that would break up their 10 yeard friendship plus what if he didnt believe me! he trusts his frined compleatly. nothing has come out and nothing will, we have spoken and said it was stupid. now all i can think of is that i will get cheated on, now i know how easy it is to cheat and really how easy it is to get away with it why wouldnt he! hes a goregous 20 year old funny amazing lad who goes out to the pub every night. one slip? i would be totally devestated we love each other more then anything! this is my first serious relatuonship and same for him so what if he misses the batchelor life? he's out right now with his friends and tons of girls, i dont know if hes going to be home later tonight. please help, i know what i did is unforgivable and has probably brought on this worry but i love him so much and need help. thanks for any help! x
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2010): Dear lady,
This is why i hate alcohol. You loose control over you and pay the price.
First of all are you worth him? what is the guaruntee you will not get drunk again and sleep with some one?
My advice will be
1) Stop drinking for life.
2) Do not tell to your BF.
slowly you will forget the incident.
but do no repeat this again
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reader, raiders  +, writes (7 April 2010):
 You are lying to him anyways so why worry about him cheating on you or not. You violated his trust his with his friend thats a double NO NO. You are worried about what if he cheats on you hummmmm,,, you actually confirmed that you cheated but I really don't see any true remorse he is being deceive by his girlfriend and his pretend friend instead of you two coming out clean and being honest you two have chosen to keep him keep quite and continue to lie and keep him blind folded.
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