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*lltheabove1212
writes:I met her last night and we were kind of drunk but hung out for most of the time. She gave me her number. She asked me to sit on a couch next to her and she was pointing to where there was little room and I put my arm around her.Then I texted her later that night saying "Saw you, thought you were cute, just sayin." She texted back "haha aw (my name) you're cute too"Then I was talking to her on facebook and I said it was fun hanging with her. She said she had a lot of fun hanging with me too.I'm not sure if she's trying to just be polite or what. Should I even initiate contact again? I don't want to seem over interested. Also her best friend (since they were young) said she really thought we hit it off and she would put in a good word
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reader, bruce lee  +, writes (29 September 2010):
 I could be wrong but if she didn't complain when you put your arm around her, it could be a sign that she likes you a lot. That's the part where I think she wants you bad.
So you should make that phone call, but don't freak out if she says she's not interested. People do change their minds. Whether it's right or wrong, it does happen.
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reader, alltheabove1212 +, writes (28 September 2010):
alltheabove1212 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionBruce Lee:Thanks for your answer. Just curious which part makes you think she wants me bad?
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reader, bruce lee +, writes (28 September 2010):
I think she wants you bad. But women are hard to understand so I could be wrong. I know that's a controversial thing to say but it's true. I can't understand them one bit.
Just give her a phonecall and put her on the spot...Ask "Are you interested or have I misread things?"
If she says she's not interested, just hang up and have nothing more to do with her. It's not right when people lead others on and then change their mind.
Maybe that's what's going on here.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 September 2010): In my opinion, when women are drunk, its a mask because they lose control and can make bad decisions or even do something and not remember or do something just because they were drunk and dont care. Therefore, because she was intoxicated, I wouldnt take her actions as being genuine. Ask her out, treat her like a lady, eff booze for now so you can see the possible real side of this woman and conclude whether you are truly interested and she is too. Good luck.
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