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anonymous
writes:About 2 weeks ago I met a girl at work. She is 18 years old. We talked for a bit on that day but barely have since because our difference in work schedules. That day she mostly talked about another guy at work she has a crush on (though I don't know why. The guy is irritating to work with). Anyway, on those few moments we have talked since then she talks to me with familiarity as if she has known me for a while and we talk all the time. Wanting to see how I act around a girl I like, because the subject came up the first time we talked. I told her I can't force myself to like someone. To be honest it's hard for me to like any girl.She greets me like we are good friends. The other day when I arrived for a meeting, I walked past her and a group of others at a separate meeting. I felt a kick and I turned my head to see her waving hi. She is apparently keeping track of my birthday on the work calendar. Today she poked me as she walked behind me. She seems to run into me a lot, though it could be by chance.A lot of the females at work seem to have taken an interest in me. Whatever their interest is, whether they think I'm nice or a hard worker or whatever it is. Do you think this girl likes me? If she does I need to let her know straight up I'm not interested in her like that, or at all. I barely know her and have talked to her a few seconds every now and then. I like someone else.
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reader, CMMP +, writes (3 April 2014):
At this point it doesn't really matter. You only need tobket someone down if they ask you out and you're not interested. At that point just tell her that you don't see her as anything more than a friend.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2014): she seems to treat you in a friendly manner , its never a good sign if a girl is telling you about another lad that they fancy . in that case she is talking to you as a friend .
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2014): No I don't think she does. I think she's just being friendly, she has a crush on the other dude. So I wouldn't make a fool out of yourself saying 'i'm sorry i'm not into you' when she's not into you like that, your just her casual work friend. If you were to bring something up when she hasn't come onto you or told you she likes you then I think it would isolate you at work and it would make your working relationship very awkward.
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