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male
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:hi everybody, i can smell that something is going on with a girl we have been friends for almost a year. Until the past week we were very very close, we are working in the same bank, i can say on my part that i was acting as if we were just friends, we used to talk about detail secrets of each other, we used to advise each other on life matters,we used to tell each other that we are special persons, (here on my part the complement was forwarded with in the context of friendship,i don't exactly know about what extactly her complement was intended to), she used to tell me that i am the most inspiring person in her life,i also told her that she is special, innocent,and smart.most of our coleagues also suspect that something is going on between us, to this extent we were close. but afterall i was still maintaining my space, i don't go out of work with her frequently,i used to act is if we were just co-workers, no having drink together, i can say i didn't give her much time, she is one year older than me. by the way, she is spending sometime with a guy whom she had been just friend with and now their relationship has been changed to bf-gf, she told me that she doesn't love him and also she is sure that wouldn't spend longer time with him,to be frank that also didn't bothered me, i was even encouraging her to straighten and normalize her relationship with him,..lately last friday night, she text me saying that she is in trouble cos she had a crash on SOMEONE, i told her that i am happy that she finally fall in love coz as you know love is a good and blessing in life and i advised her to take care and to go on the loving process, i asked her to tell me who the guy is, but she refused to tell me, this confused me coz she used to tell me everything that is going on in her life, she told me a very very detail secrete of her life, but why now? i know that she is suffering a lot in her mind ,she is depressed in her work place,she is telling me that she almost hate her life,....oh god,this matter is really making me worried i can't even do my job, i don't like my friend to suffer this way, today, i asked her to tell me what is going on, but she told me that she will tell me when it goes away....do you think a friend deserves this answer, i am here her friend and as a friend i am ready to share all her problems. Now my point is, lately my feeling towards her is chaging, i am just symphatizing her feeeling much and also feel a sort of missing when i don't see her i hours,what do you think is going on between us? oh by the way, there is this guy who is also her friend he is a married and have a daughter recently,he just recently moved in to our town even if they were friends even before he was in other town, they are just friends, they are close,they almost meet every day, i have many questions in my mind: is she having a feeling towards me and afraid to tell me?
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