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writes:Today i spent some time talking to a colleague at work. She is very attractive and of French extraction with a sexy voice.Asking her out she replied that i was a lovely guy but flirted with all the females, she did not know if and when to take me seriously.However, she confirmed she has thought about me and thinks i need to change my image - AgreedNow if she has been thinking about me - does that mean she could fancy me as she admits that we most certainly could go out as friends?Additionally she is 15 years my junior?Answers and views please p.s. she is also 'Muslim'?
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reader, AuntyEm  +, writes (21 March 2010):
 Well I tend to agree. I am 45 but men my age never want to date women my age. Men tend to prefer much younger women, so yes older women do become anonymous, simply because the majority accept that they will never find a loving relationship again with a man in their age group, so they just tend to immerse themselves in their own lives and forget about men entirely.
I am sure thats why you never meet any.
Anyhow I wish you the best of luck with yoour young muslin beauty xxx
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reader, Brunel +, writes (21 March 2010):
Brunel is verified as being by the original poster of the questionGreat points!
Problem with regard to age gap is that all I have come across in my 9 months of separation are ladies in the roaring 40's. I have been told and read a number of times that females in their 50's become anonomous?
This seems to be the case as I know no 50+s that are unattached and the couple I did meet looked and acted as older. Looks and figure wise they came nowehere near my wife who is 55. Wrong to compare I know but maybe it is a fact that with age confidence in some areas wanes?
Very best to you all!
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reader, AuntyEm +, writes (20 March 2010):
Yes it sounds as if she really fancies you. Asking you to change your image could mean that she has fantasised about how you would look if you were maybe a little styled and if a woman is fantasising over you then she is seriously interested!!
Even the fact she is a muslim should not stand in your way as attraction is a powerful thing. She is also a lot younger so her views will probably be a bit more liberal.
Maybe you could perhaps work on your image to make yourself look a little younger, maybe get some new clothes and work out a little...it could help...right?
You obviously have a way with the ladies so you have a good chance in winning her over!!
Go for it!
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