A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hey guys..so I'm sixteen years old and I'm confused about the way that a teacher of mine has been acting. I cannot decipher if the way he stares at me in the hallways is flirting or what. He was my teacher last year and I did have a lot of problems with him...he thought me and my friends were stalking him and what not... also one day he made a comment about my curly hair..."we have the same hair but I brush mine" This type of comment was uncalled for and weirdly cruel... I've heard before that when teachers develop crushes the first tell-tale sign is that they become cruel..? It would have definitely not occurred to me that he was in some way attracted soley by his cruelty but can't a girl tell when an adult male stares at her for a bit too long. In the time that I was in his class we looked at each other constantly; and now I can feel his eyes on me every time we see each other in the halls or w.e... and when he walks past me he tries to avert his eyes if he catches me catching him look at me. When I walk past him he "struts" and when he catches me talking to other male teachers he looks I'm confused...I personally do feel some sexual tension but I dunno... he's 35 and he is pretty damn hot... What do you guys think?
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reader, gberygeg +, writes (18 March 2007):
 alright thanks for ur good advice...but that wasn''t really the question. What do u make of this situation? is he mean, jealous of me, scornful, attracted...what?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2007): I think that:
- You should not be feeling ANY sexual tension for a man well over twice your age.
- His comment was uncalled for, especially in a school environment.
- You need to ignore the staring in between you two and his so-called confused emotions and stay the heck away from this man!
- Nevermind the wrongness of the entire situation, if you cared for him at all you would realize the trouble he could get into if anything happens between the two of you.
-Go date a senior or something.
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