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How to be secure in love...

Q.   How to be secure in love... When you enter a relationship, it opens up hundreds, thousands of uncertain feelings. Little potholes in our sanity and they can easily make their ways into becoming tunnels. I was the most confident person in the wo...

A.   13 October 2008: Life is that hard! And relationships have rough spots, they go through trouble and if ended every relationship when it stopped being fun, you'd never have a real relationship. That being said, it's true there is no real way to stay secure i... (read in full...)

During an orgasm my abdominal muscles tense up causing my back to arch forward and then I get shivers down my spine for the next few minutes afterwards.

Q.   During an orgasm my abdominal muscles tense up causing my back to arch forward and then I get shivers down my spine for the next few minutes afterwards. This has been happening for the last year or so and I can't avoid it. My question is does this ...

A.   13 October 2008: Are you in pain when this happens? If so, you need to go see a doctor. If not, it just sounds to me like you're having a good orgasm. Be thankful it's that good.... (read in full...)

How do I help my daughter without interfering?

Q.   My daughter has been going out with the same guy for over 5 years. They have spent nearly every night together at college and have always been best friend. They have been under a lot of stress lately and last weekend they got into a fight and he ...

A.   11 October 2008: It sounds like your daughter needs to wake up to the situation and realize that he's using her. However, as you said you don't know the full story. All you see is her side, not his and there may be something else going on here that they aren't ... (read in full...)

I'm tired of the way my sister and her daughter treat my daughter.

Q.   I had my sister's daughter, Kate, spend the night with my daughter, Sam. The next day we went to play at my mom's where another sister lives with her children. While I was outside with my daughter, Sam, my sister made arrangements that Kate would ...

A.   24 July 2008: I've been in a very similar situation, my aunt and cousin would do the same thing to me. You have to put your daughter first. You'll likely take a lot of crap from your family for distancing yourself from your sister, but it's something you have to ... (read in full...)

I hurt one of my friends badly, what do I do?

Q.   My friend Hannah (not her real name) lost her Dad (he was 42) in a car accident and she been annoying me ever since it happen. One day Hannah wining about her Dad and I lost it (didnt mean to) and told her shes being obsessed with him and needs to ...

A.   21 July 2008: My suggestion would be to apologize in person. Tell her that you're really very sorry, that you didn't mean what you said and explain that you don't understand how she feels about the situation. Offer to listen to her problem. The girl just lost ... (read in full...)

Does my mother not like talking to me?

Q.   I think my mom doesn't like to talk to me. When I talk to her most of the time she always scowls at me. Also when I talk to my dad she also scowls at me too. However, my mom doesn't scowl at my sister when she talks to her. How come my mom only does ...

A.   3 July 2008: Is there anything else going on? Maybe a sibling blamed something on you? How long has this been going on? The best solution is is talk to her, even if its just in passing or joking around. she may not even realize shes doing it. ... (read in full...)

Why couldn't he have just told me he'd met someone else, instead of ignoring me?

Q.   Hoping some of the fabulous agony aunts could give me a tip or two here. My ex and I were together twelve years. He left me and went back to his hometown two years ago. Canada is a big country so there was fair distance between us. He met some...

A.   3 July 2008: Maybe he was afraid of hurting your feelings? If he met her before you went to visit him maybe he felt bad for it while you were there. Or he could just be a jerk, who only cares about himself. You're doing the right thing by staying clear of... (read in full...)

Why has she stopped wanting to be around me?

Q.   I've been going out with my girlfriend for about 2 months now and she's been really happy and always wants to be around me until recently. We did stuff together about every other day during the weekend and I could tell there was nothin more that she ...

A.   3 July 2008: Maybe she's having problems in another part of her life, school, work, family problems? There could be a thousand things going on in her head right now that are stopping her from being 100 percent committed to you. I agree with the past responders ... (read in full...)

Is it okay to continually email this guy or do I look like a girl with no life?

Q.   Is it OK or am I look like a desperate, girl-with-no-life kinda way if I like to share and write stuff about my life to this guy I met some time ago. See, he's military I met him in a mission, and obviously I like him awfully a lot. I decided ...

A.   3 July 2008: Have you tried asking him if you're emailing him too much? Maybe instead of emailing him every week or so you could write the email, save it until the following week then go back and add to it and take the things that seem redundant out. ... (read in full...)

My periods are irregular, is this normal?

Q.   Im 13 as of June 10 and i've had my period since i was nine. it was never really normal, and i've went to doctors and stuff.They put me on the pill but that made me sick so they put me on the patch and it still didn't help me. The doctors say my ...

A.   3 July 2008: It's perfectly normal. I have the same problem, I have poly cystic ovarian syndrome. Have you been tested for that? Honestly, you're so young that having your period irregularly may not be a big deal. It may regulate itself as you get older and your ... (read in full...)

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