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writes:hi,can anyone help me,me and my girlfriend split up at the end of january as she got depressed because of her home life and wanted a break from me as she was pushin me away and she didnt want to hurt me,we have stayed in contact mainly through txt but she sometimes doesnt reply and other times she doesthe last time i saw her was just under a month ago,it was to hard for me to just be friends and i told her this,she said that she wants to get back together with me when she is readyi believe her and i have since asked her twice through txt if she means it and she has said yes,but in 1 txt she put,i have told you when i am ready i will get in touch but if you get with another girl while i am not with you then when i am ready you can decide what to do,what i would like to know is do you think she means it and should i just leave her alone now or keep in touch?i love her very much but should i wait for her?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2008): i saw her brother yesterday and he told me that he had a chat to her,she said that we are supposed to be getting back together but her head is all over the place at the inute and she said to him that she is being honest with me in txts so if she is,surely she means it about us gettin back together when she has sorted her head out?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2008): The only person who can answer that is you. If you sincerely believe she will get back with you, you can wait for her by all means. But you may get tired of putting your life on hold waiting around for her to make her decision.
The problem is, at the moment she is calling the shots, and if she decides that she doesn't want to be with you, you stand to be very hurt. It's not really acceptable for her to rely on you to be there as and when she decides. One of you needs to make a decision either way - to be together or not, eliminate the waiting and wondering.
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