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writes:Hi, a couple of weeks ago I went on a date with a lovely guy who i'd been chatting to on facebook for a few weeks. It went really well and we got on brilliantly. He even suggested another date after our evening!So, I waited a week and heard nothing from him... and being the impatient person I am, I emailed him a friendly mail just asking how he is. He soon replied and said he was sorry for not contacting me as he had been busy then asked back how I was... I answered him saying I was okay etc. But he didn't bother to continue the conversation! Does this mean he isn't interested anymore? he's coming across as quite offish with me.
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reader, Denise32  +, writes (16 July 2010):
 Unfortunately it does indeed mean he doesn't wish to pursue you.
I know it's disappointing when you'd been chatting on Facebook and then had a real nice date. Who knows why he suggested going out again, then changed his mind? No way to tell. He MIGHT be too busy; or realized that though he enjoyed your company for one date, you don't have enough in common; he could be dating someone else.
The only thing you can count on is that if he did want to see you again, he'd have made it clear.
Well, hold your head high, disappointing as it is, the truth is that after chatting for a "few weeks" and one date, you didn't really have much of an investment in this man. Move on and I expect you'll meet an equally lovely guy who WILL want to see more of you......
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2010): I would say he isn't insterested. That he was trying to find a polite way of letting down.
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