Second thoughts because of the kids..am I a fool?
Q. My partner and I are both in the process of divorce from our spouses. We have had a two year relationship and filed for divorce from our spouses three months ago. My partner and I both have kids and his are, according to him, devastated that he ...
A. 3 March 2009: I don't think you are a fool. If he doesn't go through with it, he will always have a thought in his head that it could have worked. He needs the closer with his soon to be ex.... (read in full...)
When he gets angry he takes it out on me!
Q. right, well me and this lad have been seeing eachother. We have been out before, but now it is more of a seeing eachother thing, Im only 14. When he gets angry, he tends to take it out on me, and i hate it. He gets really frustrated and takes ...
A. 2 March 2009: It is called emotional abuse. Leave him, becuse it won't get any bettet.... (read in full...)
Weird pain in vagina
Q. okay first off i had a colposcopy done about two weeks ago. the thing is they won't tell me what's going on. All the doctor said was that i need to get a pap smear every three months. they were unable to do a biopsy because i am pregnant. I'm ...
A. 2 March 2009: If they did a colo, then you had abnormal cell growth. That is usually the first stages to cervical cancer. Without knowing what kind of pain ( sharp,burning,steady,or intense) I can't tell you much more. You should be okay till after the baby is ... (read in full...)
How good is Spermicide?
Q. Which spermicide works the best and what are the chances of it not working properly? (Never used it before). My girlfriend likes to make love without condoms because we feel closer that way but we also would not like a baby so I am wondering just ...
A. 2 March 2009: Make sure she is on birth contol. If she is any type will work. If she isn't you still have a good chance of her getting pregnate. I would use condoms till you know for sure she is on birth control. I have meet alot of girls that have lied to guys ... (read in full...)
Help ! I wanna confront my feelings for what He did to me... but I can't.
Q. I'm so pissed off but at the same time sad. Please take your time to read this, it might be long but please read it and help me... I went out with this guy - let's call him Bob and so we lasted like 2 months and a half. I later found out that in ...
A. 2 March 2009: I would tell him off. He deserves it and your friend isn't a true friend. I had the same problem in the past. It's better to tell them off and move on.... (read in full...)
What is the reason for thinking about my ex so much?
Q. Is this normal? I broke with my ex a few months back and started seeing this really nice guy but when we are having sex I think about my ex. Also sometimes when I am alone, I touch myself thinking about my ex. Now this is the weird part - my ...
A. 2 March 2009: It's very simple, you aren't over your ex. It happens alot, give it time. When you start have strong feelings for your current bf, you will stop thinking about your ex.... (read in full...)
Is he afraid to talk because he is afraid of closeness?
Q. He said he would talk with me about what happened. But it has been two weeks. I did see him but he said he does not want to talk about it yet. I don't understand this. I just want an honest open discussion. It is hard for me to get closure ...
A. 2 March 2009: He can't express his emotions with you. Most men are the same way. If it isn't something that is that important I would let it go. Act more like he does, and he will come around.... (read in full...)
I know I need to own up but it is going to ruin everything!
Q. My boyfriend who is working abroad asked me to to go out and visit him for a holiday so we started planning and for some stupid reason thats when I stared lying. As the weeks passed I daren't tell my parents about the holiday (I have never travelled ...
A. 2 March 2009: Your parents would be wrong to not let you go. You are young only once. Tell your parents your going and it will give you a chance to see another part of the world. I would only tell your bf that you are scared to fly by yourself. Go get your shots ... (read in full...)
Does he realise what he has lost with me?
Q. Hi eveyrone, just a short one really, when my ex bf left me for the mother of his child to try and work things out, everything was ok, but now shes got back with an ex - not my ex bf. my ex and her went down the pub the other day, and I told the ...
A. 2 March 2009: Okay, this could be very hard for you. I am in the other spot, I'm the ex with the kids. From my point of veiw the guy wants both of you. If you keep talking with him, he will keep bounceing back and forth between you and her. All of the ... (read in full...)
Am I turning gay or am I just curious?
Q. I don't know what to do. I am married and have a child, I'm am 5 years married. When we have sex she stimulates my anus with her fingers or a dildo. Now I have a want to feel a real penis in my anus. And I spend hours reading stories of first time ...
A. 1 March 2009: I have actually dated a few guys that enjoyed the same thing. You aren't gay. Most men that try the back door with there girl, find that when they get used to the penatration, they can orgasm easier. A man's G-spot is his prostate, and the easiest ... (read in full...)
Am I just a rebound for when his relationships end?
Q. ive been friends with a guy for 8 years now. we've always got along well and flirted a little. when his 1st relationship ended 5 years ago we slept together but it went no further. then we had a couple of dates 2 years back but things got confusing. ...
A. 28 February 2009: It doesn't sound as if he is tring to use you as a rebound. But my suggestion is, the next time he comes around just be a friend and don't sleep with him. The way he will act after that will tell you if he sees you as a friend.... (read in full...)
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