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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi,I am not very good in judging people. I need help in this department.There is this one guy i fancy. He is an assistant of my Marketing Manager. Technically, I am their client. When we first know each other, it was nothing and strictly business. But starting few months ago, after I ended a relationship, I started to notice him and somehow I kinda think he might be interested in me. The thing is, he kept smiling whenever we talked. Even over the phone, I called his office, he cheered up when he realizes I was at the other end. Its the way he sounds, I know he sounded happy. And he started to call me by my name (he usually call me by my company's name). The last 2 times we've met, everyone was hinting that we should be together, including the Marketing Manager. He actually pointed out to me (or very publicly) that he is still single. And the last time we we've met, he actually offered to teach me how to ride a motorbike.Am I wrong? The thing is, he never made a move. I thought maybe it is due to the fact that I am a client or maybe he feel insecure or maybe he is shy. Or maybe I am totally wrong.Can anyone help me in this matter?
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (26 November 2012):
 If you are interested and there won't be a conflict of interest due to work (I mean if you get together and then break up will it be awkward at work) then I think you could approach him...
Yes we should not date folks we work with on a regular basis
but you are client....perhaps a work related lunch just the two of you...
just be prepared that it may just be sport flirting and he's not about to jeopardize a job for a relationship.
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reader, DV1 +, writes (25 November 2012):
 He probably realized that it would be unprofessional, or could be very bad if things go wrong, because he'll still have to deal with you on a regular basis... He did the right thing for both of you...
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