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Does having a baby affect your ability to have an orgasm?

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Question - (10 January 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 11 January 2008)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

To start off b4 i had my daughter i have never had an issue with having an orgasim. Does pregnancy affect your ability to orgasim? Ive had one a few times but it took a long time when b4 it didnt take much. How do i get things back to the way they use to be? Im not sure if this makes sense but help please. We r newly weds and i dont want our fire to burn out due to sex.

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A female reader, luckytay United States +, writes (11 January 2008):

Sorry if I'm doing this wrong but I'm not sure how to make a discussion out of this. I had an emergency c section so what else is there. I don't think I have an open mind to masterbation so I don't feel that will work. I know I can have one but it just takes so much work to get there and I'm not an all night type of gal.

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A female reader, duskyrowe United Kingdom +, writes (10 January 2008):

duskyrowe agony auntGiving birth to a child makes a woman's vaginal entrance become slack due to it being stretched due to childbirth. Have you tried doing your pelvic exercises? This will help you to tighten up the vaginal muscles, you can even do this during sex. I do when me and my bf have sex, I find this enhances the sensation inside and gives my wonderful orgasms too. Try it and see what happens. BTW I had my last child almost 18 years ago but I am still a little slack down there.

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A female reader, nikki-jane United Kingdom +, writes (10 January 2008):

nikki-jane agony auntHi, i am a new mum of a 12 week old little boy and although i had a emergency c section i still find sex a turn on and can orgasm.

Have you tried 'masterbating'

Try to bring the romance back by getting a babysitter and going out for the evening and having fun too.

I hope it works out xx

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