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30-35,
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writes:Okay, I need help asap! I have been talking to this guy on facebook and he finally has asked me out. I have been asked out so many times in the past, but that is usually when I clam up and delete them as a friend. I want to have a relationship, but i have no idea what to do after I finally get the guy to ask me out! I was in an abusive relationship and I always assume it's because I'm scared of that happening again, but I feel like I'm over that! Does anyone have any ideas how to actually go out with the guy who asks me out..instead of deleting his profile? It's going to get to the point where there is no one left that I haven't deleted and stopped talking to!!
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reader, Christine82  +, writes (18 May 2010):
How long have you been speaking to him?
If you are going to meet him, stay safe!!
Have you spoke on the phone? That's the next thing to do if you've not already.
You delete men who ask you out - is this because of the past or because you aren't sure a relationship is really what you need?
Did you have therapy after your relationship?
Please be careful when meeting people online. I met someone after talking to them for over a year and he raped me! But I've also met men who are very charming! Infact I met my current partner 3.5 years ago and we are very happy and have a beautiful daughter now.
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