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writes:my gf has asked me if its alright to give a guy her number, because he asked for it, they want to discuss business and other things (educational and scientifically stuff),yes we are major geeks, anyway they have been talking for a few weeks regarding this, do you think this is a good sign she is asking me first, or a bad signg she wants to give a complete random guy she has never met, her number? yes they have not met, he msgd her online asking questions and they have been discussing few things, yes i can see the msg's and she has showed me everything, but its stil worrysome, that they will be convosating on a phone now... should i be worried or am i thinking way into much? Reply to this Question
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (25 June 2012):
 I think it's a little ODD (to put it mildly) that she felt like she HAD to ask you first. If this guy is someone she would be talking business with, why would she need YOUR permission to give him her number?
I think you need to chill and trust your GF. It sounds a BIT controlling that you are looking in on her "msg's" - why would you need to? You are not her father, you are her BF. She CAN talk to other people of the male persuasion without it being flirty or about cheating.. don't you think? don't you trust her?
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reader, Starlights  +, writes (25 June 2012):
 I think your worrying too much if all they do is discuss work related things , and she loves you, so you have to trust her.
Good sign is she told you she is speaking to him and willingly shows you the msgs; as long as they both keep it work related you shouldnt have a problem :)
Goodluck!
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