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writes:Hello everyone! I'm a 19 year old who's a freshman in college finishing off her semester. My boyfriend broke up with me three months ago after our year and half relationship. At this point; I'm over it and am very interested in having a new relationship but for some reason I felt like I was in some kind of funk but I did not ever mention it to anyone. Not one guy has pursued me but when I was with someone it felt like it was happening all the time. I have lived in the same neigbhborhood since I've been 6 years old and ppl are practically family to me. A few days ago, one of my neighbors said that she was talking to one of her male coworkers and my name was brought up. He said that he has a son that is sophomore at the college I go to and was wondering if I would be interested in meeting him. My neighbor contacted me and I said OF COURSE! He forwarded her his facebook page to make sure that I had the right guy. I friended him and a few hours later he accepted. He is very cute and we ended up chatting on facebook for 3 hours...which shouldn't mean much since it is Facebook but the fact that we had enough basic chemistry to hold something that long I found was cool.Overall, in the conversation I learned basic information about him and I'm definitely comfortable with meeting him. At the end, we exchanged cell numbers. The next day in the afternoon he sent me a text message asking me how my day was and it went on from there with the conversations. I am personally not a fan at all of texting but it lasted for a while. I had something to go to to in the evening and after I did that I called him... and he sounded like he was looking forward to it. We talked on the phone for an hour and a half and his voice is music to my ears. After we talked he asked me if if I wanted to meet up for coffee with him this Friday at school since we have a Starbuck's there and I said yes. Throughout today he has been texting me since I was at the library.He mentioned at the beginning that he was looking forward to Friday and he has a great sense of humor and I know how to make him laugh really well. I know the difference between infatuation and lust.But, even though I have not met him yet; I feel like I already know him. My question is from what I have told you all, do you think that this could turn into something... as in a real relationship? Do you think that he is interested in me in that way if he talked to me for all that time on the phone, and has been texting me in a was that involved a legitamate conversation and nothing trashy? From how he has been texting me, I think he is trying to learn more about me in a good, non stalker kind of way. He comes from a very good family I know for certain because of my neighborANYTHING WOULD BE HELPFUL, I'M SOO NERVOUS ABOUT MEETING HIM!
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionAlrighty, I will! I'll let you all know the outcome!
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2010): Im glad it helped. So go on and have fun with it and see where it goes! =)
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the advice everyone and for what "anonymous" left for me, I really will keep that in mind...it definitely put it into perspective!
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (31 March 2010):
 I guess Cupid has struck an arrow in both of you.Something is in the air....Everything seems so beautiful and different.
All the best to you !
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2010): Anything is possible, and by the sounds of what you've said.. it could be a big possibility. Just keep in mind sometimes we can get along fabulously with someone via internet/phone.. but when meeting them in person sometimes the connection just isnt there. This sounds exciting though - just dont go into it hoping for a relationship, let it take its own course. =)
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reader, Yassy91 +, writes (31 March 2010):
I think he does like you.and of course it can turn into a relationship
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