A
female
age
41-50,
*sim
writes:I have a bf.We been together for 5 yrs.but this last yr our relationshp goes upside down.we never spend a lot of time together.He said I did mistake,but that is long time ago.He said he don't love anymore.But he always there for me when i need him. now he just left going on vacation.I didn't know his leaving.He call just to say his leaving now.he told me he need to think about us.Dont worry when i came back i'll fix everything.He said im not gonna leave u alone.What he mean with that?I don't know if he have another woman.I learnt 4 months ago that he sending sms to another woman.But he said its nothing.i beleive him .I saw to our laptop a mp3 umbrella and theme i love u and flower.But i know him,he doen't like them.I asked him,about that he said dont worry.Can you help me.Can u give advice,what to do,to think?If he still love me?if he came back he'll stay with me? Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, Deema  +, writes (3 June 2008):
 Poor you, you sound really sad and worried - and thats not doing you any good. But the truth is he already told you he doesn't love you any more - ouch that really hurts doesn't it. He's now messing you around and you have all sorts of suspicions. All this is no good for you. He's gone away now to think about what HE wants. Question is darling WHAT DO YOU WANT? While he's away you have time to get your head sorted out and think about what you do and don't want in your life. You deserve better. So ask yourself if this brings youpeace and happiness? Does this make you feel better about yourself? Does this make you feel loved or used? After you answer those questions you'll know what to do. Good luck.
A
reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2008): it sounds to me like he may possibly have someone but he doesn't want to hurt you...so he may luv y just not in the wa you want... do you ask if there is someone else?
...............................
|
