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writes:Hey, I dated this boy for a year, about a year ago, and I ended it because of lots of stress in my life due to exams, home issues etc at that time. We have however stayed on good terms throughout the year and a couple of weeks ago, he expressed interest in me again, and after the A level exams we are planning to get back together again for the long summer before we both go off to university. If i talk directly to him about this, he always seems really keen, and happy about it, for example if i say 'are you looking forward to seeing me?' he will reply with somethink like 'yes! why wouldn't i be?!' However, he just hasnt convinced me that he is that keen, hes very unattentive - which could be due to exams etc, but he doesnt seem to be making any effort at all to contact me.. however when i contact him, he is often responsive. Ive been getting really stressed about my exams, and a couple of nights ago i went a bit crazy on him, and hes been exceptionally quiet since! Do you think he is really interested in me? or should i be as worried as i am?
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (3 June 2008):
 I think you might be overanalyzing the situation at the moment. You're both very stressed with exams, and this might be causing you to be overly sensitive to anything right now. Honestly, I think the best advice I can give you is to stop stressing about this and focus your energy on your studies and exams. Things will be a lot clearer after you've completed the exams and the worry of those cleared from your mind.
Also, in relationships, people are rarely exactly on the same level of showing interest. One person may be more interested than the other, or at least show more interest, but that does NOT mean that the less-interested-seeming person is not interested at all. (Boy, that was one convoluted sentence construction there!) Let's try that again, you like him a lot and are showing it a lot. He probably likes you a lot but is showing it only a little right now. Because of exams and stress, more than likely. Did that make more sense?
So, I think you should take this off your current list of worries for the moment. Focus on your studies and your exams for now. Then, in the fulness of time, you'll find out how he feels about you. But don't fret it so much now.
GO STUDY!!!! (That was for your mom.)
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