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writes:Say I'm stereotyping or being stupid. But i met this guy in a club really briefly and gave him my number (I was drunk so i didn't care at the time). Thing is we have been texting each other a lot since then! And although i can't base him on texts. What i do know is most the guys i meet in clubs, even the ones who seem nice in person. When they do text me make sexual references and flirt a lot, or get creepy. But not him? He is just interested in getting to know about me, with the occasional flirting but in the cute way.I'm just surprised because it's been over a week and i am waiting to see when he starts to make these comments other guys do, but he just seems like a decent guy, very different from guys you meet in a club!?Can he be for real, or do you think he is just like every other guy in a club?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2011): Not all guys are the stereotypical guys in clubs who just want sex!I met my boyfriend in a club, and we've been together almost 2 years. I do understand how you feel, I wouldn't let myself get emotionally involved for a while, for fear of getting hurt. In my case, I just went for it and the rest is history. My guy was for real, maybe yours is too! Hope this helps :) x
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reader, mizz.butterflies  +, writes (7 May 2011):
 if classy girls go to clubs to dance and have a good time, guys can do the same. do not overflirt with him. take things slow. stop texting so much , wait for him to ask you out. if u wanna help him a bit suggest going to this movie u wanna watch (at the movie theatres)
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reader, muso888  +, writes (7 May 2011):
It's always possible that he's just another jerk trying to get a hook up from meeting a girl in a club... but then its just as possible that he's a nice guy who met a girl he wants to see again! There's really no way for any of us (here on the site) to know... if it were me though, if he seems nice and I was interested in him, I might want to follow up and give him a chance... :) good luck!
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