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writes:Hi! My question is: do you think a virtual relationship can become a real relationship?OK, if you want to know why I'm asking this question, just read my story below, if it's too long for you just answering my question will be enough :)! So, one night I had to sleep I had big exams the next day, I was really tired and I had no reason to be online. Still I got into a chatting room, which is so not me, I hate those stupid chat rooms, but still I was there for no particular reason and right when I came in someone talked to me, and since that moment we are inseperable. It was crazy, I didnt know the guy and he didnt know me, but we talked for hours and it was the best conversation I ever had with a man so far! still right now it's hard to believe, we descovered we had almost everything in common. In our first conversation, we were finishing each other's sentences, like we knew each other for a very long time, it was crazy! I couldnt sleep that night! I was having some issues with my boyfriend (ex bf now), we were in a LDR and he was hiding things from me. And the next day after I talked to that stranger, my bf and I broke up because he was indeed cheating on me with several women behind my back....so that stranger was there for me at that time, and he made me forget everything. Forget the pain and forget that we are living in different countries... I felt he was so close. We can't let each other go, we are videochatting ALL THE TIME, we are always together. He introduced me his family and I did the same. I feel like we know each other more than anybody else. We are so addicted, so addicted that we even fell asleep together every night, and his face is the first thing I see when I wake up every morning... it's like we're livign together...and whenever we're not videochatting, we're texting every minute, we're missing each other, we're thinking about each other, we're only thinking about when we'll videochat again! I know it's hard to believe, but trust me, it's hard for us to believe it too... I never believed in love in first sight, but now I know it is love at first sight via internet, how crazy does it sound! But it is true, we're in love with each other. He's thinking about coming over to my country to meet in real life... because it's getting really hard for us. We want to be with each other soo baaaaaad!! Btw, he's 25 and lives in Germany, and I'm 20 I live in Morocco. My ex bf was just in another city of morocco and he was always complaining we were so far and the distance made him cheat on me...but this guy thinks we're not that far from each other, it's not like I'm in Australia or Canada...I never heard of this kind of situation before. So I don't know what to do. Can it really work? because I want it to work, I want us to be together in real life. I'm just afraid that the distance will make things really difficult... any advice? do you know anyone who experienced the same thing? What are ur opinions about this??
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reader, Queen King 1  +, writes (10 March 2017):
Yes I've heard of people meeting online Falling in Love and getting married
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2012): Well best to wait and see what happens when you meet up. But don't expect it to always be as intense as it is at the moment. You were vulnerable when you met him, so be careful, meet him somewhere public etc. Good luck.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (12 June 2012):
 It's possible that it will work but only if one of you or both of you move and you can be together full time eventually.
20 is pretty young however (as is 25 for a man) so it may be nice for now but later on it may fizzle out as the newness and excitement dies down.
To be honest my LDR boyfriend and I couldn't last too long being apart and we saw each other every weekend.
UNTIL you two meet in person and see how it works, there is not much we can predict... because the persona you have online may or may not be different from real life and the same goes for him... you have to wait and see what happens.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2012): i met my now soon to be husband on facebook. We had some friends in common so i added him and we started emailing then texting and talking on the phone. We couldnt get enough of each other and desided to be in a relationship. I hung out with him in person a few months after that. and now here we are and have been togather for a year and iv loved him all along. i think its no diffrent than a dating website were at a time where you dont have to meet some one in person to meet them with all the technology they have now. you just have to be carefull who you meet its best to in public the first time and let people know who your going to be with. hope this helps good luck.
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