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writes:I am female, 40 years old, and on a neighborhood tennis team. I am madly attracted to the female coach who is about my age. Sometimes I think she is attracted to me. But sometimes I don't think so and that it's all in my head.Take this conversation for example: (I am a brand new player, so I am just starting to learn tennis). My instructor says to me: "What sport did you used to play?". I said, "basketball when I was younger". She said, "oh, I can tell because your footwork is very good. How long have you played tennis". I said, "I just started this summer". She said: "You never picked up a racket?? Holy Cow" I said, "Well, I did take some drills through the park district this past spring". She said, "Ohhh, okay. Well, you are doing excellent. You have an athletic body, and you're doing great for just starting".So, anyhow, I'm going crazy when I think about this conversation. In my mind, I so want it to mean that she is flirting w/ me, but it could just be a regular old compliment.I would love anyone's thoughts, though. Thanks!!
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (2 July 2009):
 I'm with satindesire, I don't see any flirting here. She paid you a compliment. Coaches are supposed to encourage their students/team members, so I wouldn't read anything more than that into it.
Just relax and enjoy tennis. If she is interested at all in you, you'll figure it out in time.
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reader, Fifteen +, writes (2 July 2009):
It sounds like just a compliment but I could be wrong
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