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Bf looks at porn, is he cheating on me with these 'paper women'?

Q.   I have been thinking of this question for such a long time. My guy, and I love him very much and I tell him so all the time!! I am glad to say that I do not cheat, or have cheated in my relationships! He told me that when I am in the same room ...

A.   8 October 2006: I feel for you i really do. I know exactly how you feel, I feel that if my partner was to look at porn he would be cheating on me. The way I see it is we are together becuase we love each other and no-one else comes close so why are they interested ... (read in full...)

I really like this guy at work, he likes me too, but he has a girlfriend.

Q.   I have worked with a guy called carl for 4 years and ive always really liked him but ive dated other people as he as a girlfriend. When i went on my 1st works do his best friend told me that carl loves me but he cant and wont do anything as he has a ...

A.   8 October 2006: If you dont feel comfortable talking openly to him about the situation then maybe hes not the right man for you after all. If things really did get that bad between you both after you have spoken to him then he is showing you his true colours and ... (read in full...)

I feel like I am making love to a dead body, but my GF thinks it is a mans duty to please. Help!!

Q.   my girlfriend thinks that its a mans duty to please a woman and that all she has to do is lay back and enjoy. for the one year we have been together i do everything oral sex and romance. she just lay there, do nothing and let me do what ever i want. ...

A.   7 October 2006: i think you need to talk to her, after all it takes two to tango, your not asking too much at all. Sex is about pleasing one another not just her. try talking to her, get some advise from sex books on how to spice things up. maybe she will get the ... (read in full...)

Do some bad-boys become "good" once they find a woman they really love?

Q.   Do some bad-boys become "good" once they find a woman they really love? Here's my dilema: my b/f has always been a bit of a bad boy, he drinks, he smokes, he likes rowdy sex and porn. In the past, he has dated strippers and girls with tattoos. ...

A.   7 October 2006: I think your going to find hunny it called growing up. Me and my partner have gone through the same thing. He used to drink and watch porn regulary with his mates. But now all he wants to do is cook me a nice meal, sit and watch a film with a bottle ... (read in full...)

I really like this guy at work, he likes me too, but he has a girlfriend.

Q.   I have worked with a guy called carl for 4 years and ive always really liked him but ive dated other people as he as a girlfriend. When i went on my 1st works do his best friend told me that carl loves me but he cant and wont do anything as he has a ...

A.   7 October 2006: Hunny you need to ask him his true feeling and not his mates. Ask him how he really feels. If his love is genuine, then ask what he intends to do about it. After all he cant love you both, well some men say they can love more than one woman but ... (read in full...)

I had sex with a chav, now people want to beat me up.

Q.   the other week i was at a party and got really drunk. i ended up having sex with this chav, which was a really big mistake. i went back to school and all these other chavs now want to beat me up because he has a girlfriend (which i didnt know ...

A.   7 October 2006: For a start your at school, therefore I would say your too young to be having sex, secondly dont use your drinking habits as an excuse for actions. One of my ex partners use to cheap on me every night he went out with his mates, his excuse was he ... (read in full...)

I am almost 14, how do I tell my boyfriend I am ready for sex?

Q.   im ready to have sex with my boyfriend he has done it be4 but the thing is he now lives in a different state but its not that far away and i don't know how to tell himwe been together for a while now and i really love him i know he wants to have sex ...

A.   7 October 2006: When I was your age I thought I was ready. I had sex for the first time when I was 14, on the outside I convinced myself I was ready, on the inside the truth was I was scared of my boyfriend and scared of not being loved. I was young and believed if ... (read in full...)

I dont feel we are financially stable enough to have a baby, but he thinks its okay! I want a baby but I'm scared!

Q.   I have been with my partner for 19 months now, we are engaged and living together. When we had been together for about 6 months I had a miscarriage, even though we were very upset about this, we knew it was for the best. We were still at college and ...

A.   3 October 2006: anonymous - thanks for the advise, but what your saying is everything thats going through my head rationaly, as for my heart it telling me to have a baby now while i can. You see my nan had cancer and my mum is currently going through a tough time ... (read in full...)

Why do I keep getting pregnant to men I don't really love?

Q.   I am 23 years old and have a 4 year old child. At the age of 17 I had an abortion and it was a really harrowing experience as I didn't tell anyone. Then earlier this year, I had another, but this time felt able to tell family and friends, although ...

A.   3 October 2006: i cant believe your 23 and treat abortions as an everyday normality. im only 18 and know if you dont use contraception your going to end up pregnant. and by the way did you know that abortions hold a risk of you not being able to concieve in the ... (read in full...)

I'm 15 and pregnant! I can't tell my parents...What shall ! do?

Q.   im 15 and pregnant! what shall i do??? it was a mistake, im not with the father of the baby, i got drunk and got carried away! help, i cant tell my mum or dad or anyone! how am i gonna tell them!?! they will be crushed! ...

A.   3 October 2006: Well firstly you need to make a decision about your baby. You have three options, the first depends on how far gone you are but you could have a termination. Thats all im going to say on that matter as i dont believe in them but being pregnant at ... (read in full...)

I dont feel we are financially stable enough to have a baby, but he thinks its okay! I want a baby but I'm scared!

Q.   I have been with my partner for 19 months now, we are engaged and living together. When we had been together for about 6 months I had a miscarriage, even though we were very upset about this, we knew it was for the best. We were still at college and ...

A.   3 October 2006: thanks camille your advise has really helped. im going to talk to my partner and tell him im ready for a baby. and at the end of the day i guess as long as the baby has loving parents who would do anything for them then thats all matters. will keep ... (read in full...)

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