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writes:I have never ever experienced anything like this before. I met a guy in 3 months ago went on a first date who was the perfect gentlemen went home and ended up having sex.We contacted each other the next week, then left it for a couple weeks and then he asked me out again. I just said it was a drunken fling and was not that interested and said I was seeing someone else. However, I did confess to him it was amazing, well it was good, the best ever. Now he can not stop contacting me saying how much he loved it, how good I am in bed and how much he loved to do it again. Well I do admit I do keep flirting with him as it was good but I have not given him anything since that night. I am amazed by his sexual obsession with me. Do many guys do this?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYeah, he sent me all these I loved it texts the next day. But then we did not see each other for a couple weeks so I got a bit pissed off, so I decided to play hard to get, you know don't want to be the clingy female. Told him I thought it was a drunken fling it wasn't really as I was not pissed in the morning, but yeah it was fun although should meet each other as friends and see if we liked each other again. Then I even went so far as to say I could not go out with him as I was seeing someone else, but still told him it was good. After that endless texts message and he texted when he knew I had a date to ask me for a drink. Only after that I told him he was amazing. But, yeah he just wants me in his bed again and that is all he talks about, however isn't that what all relationships are based on. Relationships without sex or boring sex lives don't work.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (29 May 2008):
 In this case, he found you amazing even without your telling him. But I guess I'm right as to how he thinks. If you tell him to get lost (of course, in a more polite way), he will.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell I only told him he was amazing after he contacted me a few times. When he first contacted me I said he was just good.
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reader, Danielepew +, writes (29 May 2008):
You boosted his ego by telling he was the best sex ever for you. All people like to feel they swept somebody off his/her feet. I wonder if I have to expound on how good that makes you feel. He may also think that if he pushes it a little bit harder he will get some more wonderful sex, which for him might turn to be all the more wonderful since it comes with no strings attached.
I believe that many men and women do become extremely "willing" to sleep with someone they very much enjoyed having sex with. I'm not sure I would call it an obsession. Maybe I would.
If you want him to go away, tell him that was a one-night thing and he should forget about it, and don't continue to flirt with him.
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