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writes: hey i need help big style, im still not really over my ex and i need 2 b i think about him every day and we split up cause his lil boy died and went bk 2 his ex!! anyways i have met loads of new guys jus dont feel like goin out with them as i am only 17 i feel like im 2 young for relationships n that! but recently met this guy and he is lovely 2 me but e is 27!! then i met this other guy from blackpool and i live down in the midlands and he rings me every day txts me sayin he wants 2 be with me, but he is at uni now so du think long distant relationships can work?? im confused i dont know what 2 du! xx
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reader, theskycastle +, writes (19 September 2006):
 I think long distant relationship needs a lot of trust and understanding. Some people can do it, some can't. It also depends on the guy too. Does he want to be with you all the time but only separated because of circumstances? or He likes long distant relationship because he can have free time on his own. I'm in a long distant relationship too, and I have total trust of my bf (I'm a jealous-type here, but love makes wonder). He calls me everynight telling me how his day went. We will get together during the weekend to spend time with each other. Don't mistaken me, I rather see him everyday. But if you both love each other, it actually make you miss each other more. You appreciate the time you spend together and won't fight for no reason.
For your situation, I think you really should think about whether you're ready for a relationship? You have to be fair with your new lover. Love them because you do, and not because you want the company.
Good luck!
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reader, nobody +, writes (19 September 2006):
Have to disagree with Helen, my long distance relationship works great and we always know what each other is doing - this day and age you can be in constant contact thru email, text, phone, whatever.. we speak twice a day and maybe three or four texts plus emails. just to warn you be prepared for a fat phone bill.....
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reader, Helen1986  +, writes (19 September 2006):
 No I dont think that long distance relationships work at all. There will always be jealousy beause you wont really know what the other person is doing and who they are with.
I think that you are on a rebound from your ex and are looking for attention from any man you can get it from. I am not dissing you its just I have done the same in my past. I think you should just think about having fun for a while, date blokes but dont get into a relationship.
One day the right man will pop up and you will be able to get with him for all the right reasons and not because he is a rebound. I wish you luck hunny
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