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Do I stay with my problematic bf or go for the older guy, who is 'not really' into relationships?

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Question - (13 November 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 13 November 2007)
A female South Africa age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I have been in a relationship for 20 months now, we have broken up once for about 2 months and then got back together. everything was going well but he is very difficult and we always fight about something. There is another guy that im quite keen on but he is older and not really into the relationship thing, what would you do???

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A female reader, TasteofIndia United States +, writes (13 November 2007):

TasteofIndia agony auntWhy either one? It sounds like neither of them are the real deal or the full package. Fins someone who has EVERYTHING that you need, not just bits and pieces. You don't want an older guy who doesn't like relationships (if you DO like relationships and that is what you want). But you also don't need to be in a relationship where communication is difficult and you fight all the time.

Let them both go and find someone who can fulfill your needs completely.

Good luck, sweetness!

xxIndia

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A female reader, whiteshadow United Kingdom +, writes (13 November 2007):

whiteshadow agony auntAsk yourself what you really want?

do you want fun or a real relationship or none of these at the moment?

Once you have asked yourself that. then you know the answer. Its nto worth asking what we would do cos everyone has different opinens and everyone is different and only you knows your true feelings and what you can handle and what these guys are both like. Things with your bf could be sorted by having a heart to heart maybe? so try that even

good luck

zara

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